Dating A Busy Man? 10 Signs He’s Really In Love With You

Is he in love with you? When you’re seeing a man who is super busy, there are 10 behaviors to look for that let you know he really does care.

10 signs he is in love even though he's busyNot Knowing Is Very Hard

You’ve been seeing this guy for several months and things are going so well. You enjoy his company and “get” each other. There are times when it’s absolutely undeniable he is in love with you and cares deeply.

However, there are other times that make you question everything. When your man gets extremely busy, that can leave you wondering where you stand. That is such an uncomfortable place to be. It’s hard to deal with his schedule and you wish things were clearer.

Rather than continuing to feel uncertain and worry, you can watch for the signs a man is in love with you. Once you notice several of these behaviors, you can take a deep breath and relax for a while until that super busy time passes and he’s back to his normal wonderful self.

10 Signs He’s in Love with You

The good news is that the 10 behaviors I’m about to reveal are pretty good indicators that he’s serious about you and wants to keep you in his life. With so much out there that helps you figure out when a man is NOT into you, this is like a breath of fresh and positive air!

signs he's in love - he stays in touch1. He Stays in Touch

Even when he’s crazy busy, he doesn’t skip his usual call or makes sure to keep in touch. He asks how you are doing too, vs. just updating you about his world. This shows he really does care because he wants to know about your life. That’s always a good sign he’s in love with you.

2. He Seeks Out Your Opinion

Your man wants to know what you think and seeks out your advice or ideas. Now you know he respects your opinion which is big. He wouldn’t ask if you didn’t offer something helpful or wise to contribute to his decision-making process.

This is one of the big signs he’s in love and trusts you. Most men who do this are in the relationship with you for the long haul.

3. He Likes to Make You Happy

He’s one of those men that picks up little gifts that let you know he’s thinking about you. He’ll remember a song you like or your favorite pasta dish. That thoughtfulness puts a smile on your face and certainly reveals he is thinking about you, even when he’s busy and not around.

 he respect and treats you well4. He Respects You and Treats You Well

No matter what, your man always shows you respect and treats you like a lady. Even if he doesn’t have time to share all the details of a story, he apologizes for cutting you short and promises to make it up to you. And he does!

You’ve never been treated so well, and it feels incredibly good. That’s another one of the signs he’s in love with you.

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5. He Really Listens to You

When you have something important to say, about your job, family or friends, or about your relationship, he REALLY listens. He stops what he’s doing or sets aside time to give you his full attention.

This makes you feel HEARD and understood, something you may not have found in your previous relationships. This is the sign of a good communicator and a caring man with a high emotional IQ.

6. He Supports Your Dreams


You have a few serious dreams – things that matter to you in the big picture of your life. And you are working to make these goals come true. Thankfully, you have a man by your side who fully supports your dreams.

He has suggestions, but holds back from telling you what to do. And each time you finish a chunk of your project or goal, he congratulates you and says how proud he is.  Now that’s a good man and one of those important signs he’s in love!

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7. He Makes You a Priority

When your man has been nose-to-the-grindstone at work or away, as soon as he is done or returns, you are one of his top priorities. He doesn’t put his buddies or others before you because you are the one who makes the biggest difference in his life.

He wants to spend time together since he’s happy when with you. No matter how busy he gets, he finds time for you which is how you know he’s in love with you.

he loves you even when you're not your best8. He Loves You Even When You’re Not Your Best

One way to be sure he really loves you is how he reacts when you’re not at your best. Anyone can have a bad day and your guy understands that. He doesn’t flip out or walk away. He stays and works things out.

He reassures you and tells you everything will be OK, which is so comforting. This is when you really appreciate him and know he’s a keeper.

9. He Helps You When It’s Inconvenient

This amazing man is willing to help you whenever you need it. Not when it’s convenient for him or when he can squeeze you in somewhere down the road. He actually goes out of his way to make sure you have what you need, because he’s in love with you. This is something you value about him like no other man.

10. He’s Part of Your Life and You’re Part of His

Your beau joins you at your family gatherings and you go with his family as well. That’s a big sign that you are “in” and he’s completely in love with you.

When he starts introducing you to his closest friends and family, you are crossing into a new and more intimate phase of relationship. Moving into exclusivity is often the step right before he starts including you in his everyday life.

Signs He Loves You Deeply

he loves you deeplyNow you know at least 10 signs that the man you’re seeing is deeply in love with you. These behaviors are not things men who don’t care will get involved in. It takes a certain kind of man who has strong feelings for a woman before you’ll notice many of these signs.

Once you see them, know without question that he’s crazy about you. And I’m quite sure you deserve it!

If you  your man is sending mixed signals, get my free book, His Mixed Signals Are Driving me Crazy now.


Updated 4/4/21

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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